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Love at work? A case of boss and secretary
Sign up or log in to share. Secretaries do not "usually" cheat with their bosses. It does happen in real life, sure, but that doesn't mean it's the most likely scenario. Just because a woman is a secretary, that doesn't mean she will cheat on you. And just because a woman is NOT a secretary doesn't mean she won't. It totally depends on the person, and if you find someone who you have a good relationship with and who you feel you can trust, don't let the fact that she's a secretary scare you away. Dating a secretary good or bad?
I'd also broken up with my boyfriend of six years two months earlier, and I hadn't been on a date since. I was immediately struck by how much cuter he was in person than via Skype we'd only done video interviews up until that point since he was based in the company's Chicago office. Though I would have to be blind not to notice how attractive he was, I told myself he was off-limits since he was my boss. He said, "Yeah, some of my friends got married so they could have sex," Justin said. Shortly afterward, Justin said, "So, uh, should we order a second bottle? Even though two bottles of wine at a work meeting seemed aggressive to me, I agreed because I didn't want to turn down my boss, and I was really enjoying the first intimate conversation I'd had with a guy since breaking up with my boyfriend.
While there is no doubt it is a natural phenomenon — to fall for the boss — it has a whole host of potential complications, more so than dating a colleague on the same level as you. It happens all the time and could be because people spend the majority of their time at work, so the attachments to people who are there can become much deeper. Power and authority can also make someone seem much more attractive — most people had a crush on a teacher when they were at school but never followed it through because they knew it was not allowed. Once you are an adult a potential relationship with your boss may not necessarily have the same forbidden quality, but it is something you should consider very carefully as it could have long term consequences on both your careers. Here we look at the pros and cons:. You already have a strong shared interest — this is often why people develop feelings for their boss, there is a sense of teamwork and unity when you are pulling in the same direction and working for the same company.
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At 27, Gloria comes off as a middle-aged woman. Humbled by circumstance, she wears a crooked smile, has frail skin and holds a rosary in her shaky hands. Yet if you had but met her seven months ago, you would have seen a lively secretary of a flamboyant executive in Kampala. Back then, she enjoyed a salary and spending time with an attractive boss who had the hots for her, and took her to corporate parties and cocktails.